First, and most significantly, HAPPY NEW YEAR! In fact, everyone knows, it’s actually simply one other day, the “12 months” idea being an arbitrary building of our mind’s want for order. However, hey: “Simply one other day?” Possibly there’s no such factor. Not “simply one other day,” however HOLY S___!, WE GET ANOTHER DAY!!!!
2023 has not been my finest 12 months. And but, as I’ve stated numerous occasions, I’m not lifeless but. I stated that as a joke initially, however as time went on I realized to understand it for what it truly is: A privilege and an honor to get up each morning, in a life the place I’m not homeless, ravenous, or underneath siege.
That’s my dedication for the New Yr, to savor and enjoyment of all that I’ve. Not simply at the moment, and even each morning once I write in my gratitude journal, however second by second.
I’m impressed by Ross Homosexual’s e book, The Ebook of Delights, through which the award-winning poet evokes us to inhale the small and wondrous issues which encompass us. My listing is limitless. The scent of Skip’s paws. The velvet smooth fur between Maggie’s eyebrows. The blue of Jim’s eyes. The white, orange, and yellow colours of the dietary supplements I take. (Admittedly, the sheer amount of them makes {that a} push.)
However, then. There’s the sensible writing in my new favourite novelist’s e book: Ariel Lawhon’s The Frozen River. The inexperienced shoots of tulips arising within the bulb backyard sitting on our eating room desk from White Flower Farm. Skip standing on his hind legs, unable to comprise his pleasure, as I open the door on the way in which to the sheep.
As I stated, the listing is limitless. Ross Homosexual suggests calling out DELIGHT! to pals or to your self when one thing strikes you, as a option to entrain appreciation within the small wonders of the world. What a beautiful factor to do.
This won’t save the earth, finish wars, feed the ravenous, or rescue the struggling, irrespective of the species. We’re all known as to do what we will, irrespective of how small, to proper the wrongs of the world. We should, merely should, if we’re in any respect ready, do one thing to attempt to assist others frequently. However that doesn’t imply it’s fallacious to savor what is sweet, not simply the tiny issues, however particularly the tiny issues. To buoy ourselves up lest we get pulled down by the riptide of all that’s fallacious.
Final 12 months my New Yr’s put up targeted on how I needed to really feel in 2023, not a lot what I needed to perform. I nonetheless love that perspective. Right here’s what I needed: To really feel Beloved and Loving. Amused. Curious. Delighted. Awed.
And, Energetic.
Whoops, stated the girl who developed Epstein Barr-related Continual Fatigue Syndrome in early 2023, together with a boring bunch of different stuff. Ah, the irony. However hey, 5 out of six isn’t unhealthy.
And all of the extra cause to study to savor what we do have, irrespective of how inconsequential it may appear on the time. You by no means know.
So. DELIGHT is my Phrase, my Feeling, and my To Do listing for 2024. I hope you additionally discover a lot to thrill in. Go searching–what about proper now?
MEANWHILE, again to the farm: Jim, Maggie, Skip, and I want you a Completely happy New Yr, as protected and cherished as Maggie is right here, in our tiny, however cozy, farmhouse front room. Maggie’s eleventh birthday is January third. There might be ice cream.
Actuality verify: The small desk on the left of the sofa comprises two African Violets (one, from pal Donna’s mom Rose, may virtually be as outdated as I’m.) Though the lounge had simply been dusted and vacuumed for firm, the canine hairs adorning the crops by no means fail to vanish, irrespective of how painstakingly I attempt to choose them off. I’m reminded of that nice quote I posted some time in the past from FB: “#1 Motive the home is soiled: The canine are alive.”
Right here’s one thing to thrill in: We warmed our hearts on the Solstice whereas having fun with the bonfire at Mazomanie’s Wolf Run Path, one among our favourite native walks.
This attractive puzzle from eeBoo was a Christmas current from pricey pals, D & J. It introduced a disproportionate quantity of pleasure into our family–the colourful addition to our eating room made me pleased for your complete two days that it was out. (Solely 500 items, however, truthfully, it was pleasant to have one thing so pleasing completed.
A lot to thrill in! Let’s rejoice as a Village and name out DELIGHT! right here, and DELIGHT! there. Irrespective of how small. Maybe, even, the smaller the higher? You, pricey Village, are one among my favourite delights of all. Not small, however really valuable. I want you so many good issues this 12 months. Thanks for being right here.
